Many of us have the idea of someone else making us happy, settling down, the perfect guy. When we think it’s him and we find out it’s not, the walls of the heart come tumbling down to leave an empty room, everything he filled it with is gone. We all need a light to fill our hearts, to keep them warm, but filling it with someone else’s light can be detrimental because the darkness can come back when something goes wrong. Fill the heart up with your own light and when you do the doors will always stay open for new warmth and energy from others but not to absorb, just to feel. This way if the new warmth disappears there will always be a light that stays with you because in the end we all die alone with nothing but the light we have found from with in.